Published on
September 12, 2024
Topic
Work

The Power of Asking

For me, asking is an act of courage and respect - for the work, for the team, and for myself. I’ve learned that clear, timely questions cut through ambiguity, lower needless tension, and turn “being new” into deliberate growth toward deeper, more technical thinking. This is a quick note on the subject.

The Power of Asking

When you work in a large team, many questions come up: Who is responsible? Who makes the final call? Whose opinion carries more weight? All of these are completely valid and natural. In a big organization, communication conflicts are inevitable - some serious, some just amusing. What they share is tension, which in most cases is entirely unnecessary.

What, in my view, separates the good “navigators” of this sometimes odd environment from those who sink is the absence of fear when asking questions and the willingness to clarify every detail. Many people I’ve spoken with are afraid to ask: some worry they’ll look incompetent; others fear they’ll “annoy someone.”

When something is unclear

This isn’t about tedious questions born of not understanding the field at all - everyone has met those, and they’re not fun, especially before the second coffee. I mean real questions. The uncomfortable ones created by poor communication. When there’s true ambiguity that blocks the process and the work, it needs to be removed surgically and as fast as possible.

The fear of asking simple clarifying questions shows up at every level of a corporate structure, but it can be disarmed. Sometimes you can frame the question so it’s genuinely curious, other times it’s better to be direct and point at a potential issue in the task at hand.

Whatever method you decide to pursue, you can always take pride in the fact that you are driving meaningful progress forward. When clarifying a subject, you are short-circuiting the process of mistakes and unnecessary revisions. That alone should be praised. This is the right track in the long term, at least from my experience.

It takes courage

In the end, asking takes courage. Especially when you’re “new,” “green” - a junior thrown into the corporate ocean without a life vest. Maybe you’re afraid of looking bad or maybe you fear failing. That’s normal and human - especially today, in a world full of difficulties, new technologies, and innovations that demand constant attention.

The climb looks steep from the mount. And there are a lot of hills in a career, then there are some mountains, and at times - a goddamn Mount Everest. The important thing is that you can use gear, like a good mountaineer. And a big part of that gear, a part you should arm yourself with very early to prevent steep falls, is the power of asking meaningful questions.

I asked a lot and consistently. The right questions. Sometimes people were irritated, and sometimes I got scolded, but in the end I was always patted on the shoulder for the work I've done. I still ask today. My questions, however, have a different shade now. They are deeper, more technical, and far more complex. What’s the next step in this journey? I’m about to find out.

Written by
Kalin Zdravkov —
Sep 2024

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